I don't think so necessarily. He's probably wondering how he failed you. Not trying to crowd you or rush you into anything one way or the other. What does impulsive action buy you? What would Jerry Jones do? Seems to me like you don't want to sit with the painful results of your decisions, or be anywhere near them. I can totally relate to that. Italians say, "If you stay, you burn. If you run, they shoot you." You can't stop it from hurting. Why do you think I turned into a lonely old hag? Answer: cuz I didn't want to risk getting hurt again. I didn't think I could stand it. Until you rebuild your resources, maybe you can't. I guess it depends how resilient you are? How many things hit you at once? And then, how much good support you have.