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Old Jan 22, 2013, 01:08 PM
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had to do damage control today. i have this acquaintance that seems to have attached herself to me for some reason to get herself involved kind of in the local scrapbook community. she just seems to have no boundaries and it is hurting me.

i have gotten to be friends with this woman who runs classes at this scrap booking store and she has asked me to join her group of people who get together once a month and make artist trading cards. they are very talented people and i am honored to be included in this bunch. anyway this acquaintance of mine also knows this scrap booking store and woman who runs the classes and has been trying to get involved and be active in this particular community. the problem is that the woman who teaches the classes does not like this person at all. .at the time i didn't even know they knew each other until she showed up at the store once when i was attending an event.
i guess ever sense she saw that i am involved in this community she seems to have attached herself to me . today i found out that she called the store and asked my friend if she and i could join the artist trading group she was running. this is a free group that you need to be invited to join it isn't for the public. i had already been asked to join. but this person was using me to try and get involved. she seems to have no boundaries. she never even asked me if it was OK. she even was expecting that i would drive 1/2 hour out of my way to pick her up and bring her. none of this was ever discussed with me at all. i just got a pm on face book saying she had talked to my friend about us joining the group. my thought i told her about the group and that she could join .i did not i know they don't like her and am now starting to see why. she has no boundaries at all. i am so worried ill be ousted by this community if she keeps it up. my friend said not to worry but it feels like crap all around .something i was so happy to be involved with. now i know why i just want to hide in my scrap room and not get involved. people are mean
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