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Originally Posted by Jersey01
Hi Granite and Lola thanks for asking. After T, I decided to not go home. I came and parked in the parking lot of a playground and been here ever since. I don't wanna go home. She told me to leave H alone about work, not react and don't say anything to him and maybe it will spark enough anxiety in him to get moving. She wished me luck. We talked about emotions from last week. She told me I sell myself way too short. She told me she thought a lot about me. There was more.. But it's hard. I'm here, I survived the job crisis last time and I'll survive it again. I told her I wonder if H wants out and wants to lose the condo so he can get away from me and blame it on work. So.. I can't say another word to him about it. Just go about my life like nothing changed and leave him to figure it out.
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wow not saying anything to him would be so hard for me. i can understand the pulling back and all when you talk to him about it but i wouldn't think ignoring it would help either. kind of strange. i am glad she had such nice things to say about you .i do bet you sell yourself short.