Long story short, I married a narcissitic sociopath who is addicted to very strong opiate painkillers. He attempted suicide several times, but the courts have given him very lenient visitation with our children. He never finished the therapy, never showed proof of wellness and now co-parenting is nearly impossible. I worry about my children during their entire visit (not supervised) and my children are not allowed to call, facetime, or come home early. If they are ill and go to an urgent care, he doesn't tell me. Then I am properly "reprimanded" about my lack of good parenting to make himself feel better about abandoning his children and his bitterness and anger at my divorcing him for cheating and stealing from me. Its going to be a long 12 more years, and I don't know how to deal with him. The kids and are in therapy-but as most people with mood disorders he doesn't feel he needs any therapy. I am the "Messed up" one. His first wife was his lashing anger while we were married for seven years, then his sister, then his boss, then a friend, now its me....he also cheats on the woman he has been dating for almost a year and my kids are totally attached to. ??? HELP!!!