I think it's great you want to help her. There are ways to make her feel special that you don't even have to go anywhere or spend any money. If she likes to play games, find some board games to play. Create a play and make puppets out of old socks. Sit on the floor with her, be at her level, read books together. Talk abou the moon and stars and ask her what her dreams are. What does she want to be when she grows up? Take her to a library and research things she likes, animals etc. The time you spend will stick in her mind and heart for the rest of her life. And you will have a wonderful sense of giving that will warm your heart and soul Have fun!!