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Originally Posted by dark_heart_x
I feel the same way, Costello. You take care of everyone but when is it your turn? I feel exactly the same way all the time.
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Originally Posted by costello
I don't know if he's annoyed with me or what. I was in my bedroom when he got home from his therapy appointment. He was sitting on the couch, so I came out to the livingroom and sat with him. Pretty soon he got up and moved into his bedroom and just sat there on the bed. So I left to go into town.
When I was driving home I passed him as he was driving to work. I waved at him, but he didn't wave back. Maybe he didn't see me?
I'm so tired of it all. I hope he does move out. It feels like I spend a lot of time taking care of other people, and no one takes care of me.  |
Ultimately, he is going to do what he wants. I think you are smart by not letting him back you into a corner and make you responsible for his decision. He probably wouldn't like the idea and maybe they aren't available, but a group living situation could give him some independence and support at the same time. In the meantime perhaps you could get a massage, see a favorite friend, advisor, therapist or clergy member or do whatever thing would be special for you and recharge your batteries. Yoga, ice cream, a goodbook, a movie, meditation, bungee jumping?
