Sorry, my finger slipped.

My ex is narcissistic. The only time he wants to visit my daughter (although right now I won't let him) is when he has a new flavor of the month and needs to show off his trophy child he's been bragging about. She has never been more than a trophy. I am sure if she was to get addicted to drugs and alcohol, get pregnant and drop out of school.....his need to show off his trophy would die.

She's real angry with him now and doesn't want to see him. But she doesn't understand why he doesn't make any attempt. You can't make a 15 yo, former daddy's girl, understand that it's not that he doesn't love her but he's incapable of loving anyone!!

Hamster: before you jump....NO, he has not been evaluated. But my daughters councelor is confident (after over 2 years with her) that he is in fact NPD. I also have about 18 years worth of examples, but I'm not going into all that.



Have a nice day!
Love,
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