Thanks IZ, and all.
You are totally spot on. She's been controlling, needy, no boundaries, all about her, guilt tripping, 56 years old walking around saying, "oh yea I have the *** of a 15 year old", annoying woman. She's almost 20 years older than me, we're not going to be bff's! Well maybe if she was a lot easier going and respectful, age isn't really that crucial in friendship.

But seriously I can't say a thing to her without it turning into all about her and her one upmanship. We were out once and I was happy this older guy just told me he thought I was 24, no you go girl, no high five, just all about her - how she passes for 35 all the time and the 28 yr old guy she did in Mexico said he didn't want girls his own age (yea duh it was a one night thing), and then about this other guy and another.

It's never been really good when it's good with her, it's nothing sexual since I do have a history of bi. I find her zero attractive like that, just been trying to be her friend.

And another boundary cross, big time. She showed my picture to the guy in Africa that's milking her for her life savings and his friends like me and want to meet me. Wtf!! You don't pass my picture out, freakin fruitcake, especially to the internet criminal guy I've been warning her about she won't listen.

Aaarghh she gets my goat!!!

Anyway, the show was AWESOME. It was Eric McFadden, (from P-Funk - although who hasn't played in P-Funk at some time ha) and friends. The drummer was from Primus. It was great. It was a groovey small club. The date guy was super cool, took us out to sushi before the show, drove us all around. It was good for me. It's just the Sue problem rubbed me the wrong way so bad. It is confusing and unfair to me I guess, all her weird expectations of me, even when I clearly state my boundaries and limitations.

I'm sure this b.s. will teach me something about ... something.