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Old Jan 23, 2013, 10:25 AM
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Originally Posted by Big Mama View Post
The kids and I have a great time be our authentic selves when he is not around.

He is just really intense to be around. He makes you nervous just being in his presence.
Sounds like a great thing to talk about with T. This seems like a boundary thing on both sides. He probably invades boundaries like crazy and you have weak boundaries? I had to work on boundaries and getting stronger so that I could push back against people.
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