Sky gave some really good advice. Ozzie was very supportive. I agree with Sky, maybe if you let your family know the path you now take, they may walk with you or atleast support you.

You have admitted to being an abuser. Good for you. Keep up the good work and continue going to counselling and classes. This can only make you a better person. Thinking of you. Keep us posted.

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