I think the amin thing is that I'm just scared... yes, it does make sense to tell my T about it so he can avoid it... now why didn't I think of it? I mean it's the obvious thing to do.

First of, he is not technically my husband yet... getting married next year, but the word fianée is longer to write and it boils down to the same thing... I cheated on him when we were together for about a year... with an old friend, being confused who to choose etc. I only kissed him, and in that instant I knew that I made the right choice... I don't have issues about it... except hiding it! I won't change it because it gave me the security I needed.

I'm just scared of the hole hypnosis thing, what if my T asks inappropriate questions? I have only been to him once and he suggested hypnotherapy, but I think I am going to wait for the relationship to grow a little more... Now that I think of it, it would be very stupid of me to agree to hypnosis with someone I don't trust...

Ok, so I just answered my fears... I'm not going to do it, but I'll drag this thread up again when I decide to eventually.

Thanks for your support guys... You are all gems to me... to take some time to answer my questions.