Dearheart -- you ARE doing the right thing. This IS a new chapter in your life, and it will be WONDERFUL. I know it hurts now, and you WILL grieve for awhile. That's only natural. You've been with this guy for 5 years, so you HAVE to grieve for the lost relationship, but NOT for him. He will be fine!

But soon, you will begin to feel better, especially when you're decorating your new place, and meeting new friends. You will realize what you've been missing. You will realize that you have a NEW life now, and it's all for the taking.

You're still young, and have plenty more years to do WHATEVER you want to. So get out there and LIVE!!! I wish I had it to do over again! I wish you all the very best -- and a wonderful NEW life. You deserve the best. God bless and keep us informed, okay? WE really care. Hugs, Lee