W and I just had a huge argument. I told her that if i am offered the job tomorrow(and I am pretty sure it will be offered), that I would ask for an offer in writing(email), tell them I need to talk it over with my wife, and let them know Monday. I want to buy some time, as we had a potential buyer come in today, and my preference is to stay where I am and not move 3 hours away. W says I told her I would accept the job, and I am planning to, but I don't see what difference 4 days makes. She says I lied to her.

Oh and she said I am trying to ruin her Xmas present of a weekend at the beach.