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Old Jan 23, 2013, 09:16 PM
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Originally Posted by lisacj View Post
Ohhh how I could have written that entire thread!! For a minute I was thinking we may have been married to the same guy.......then I remembered he wasn't old enough to have been married to his first wife 6 years, you 14, and me 17!!

I too have no desire to date or remarry. I kinda wonder how I will feel in 3.5 years when my daughter graduates high school and leaves. I can't stand to be by myself, so we'll see what happens.

Everybody that I say this too wants to set me up and find me someone. I have my reasons for not wanting to date or marry. It has nothing to do with the ex.....I feel nothing when it comes to him. And I'm not a mariage hater either. I know that everyone means well....and their probably right, especially the ones that have known me all my life.
I hear you, and I can relate. I'm ok with being single. I have friends and pursue quite a few interests. However, I do miss certain aspects of having a relationship - like affection. And I hate the feeling of longing for something that I am too afraid to ever have again....I just want to not feel those things.
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