Like many of you, I've been through this as well. It was the most hurtful, horrible thing. I was 40 yrs old, and I thought my life was over. I got into college (I had never supported myself.) Met some very nice professors and went out with a few. I also had a lot of therapy along the way. I am now remarried to a kind and loving man.

My message to you is that however awful it is right now (and I know it is awful), in time it will get better, when you get better. Be patient and kind to yourself. When you quit looking and are happy being by yourself, you will meet someone. Good luck to you.

Scarlett'nGracie