Wisewoman--Hope this is all right to post this-- it might be a bit off topic-- I'm not sure.....

Very well said Exoticflower! That's what I was wanting to say but didn't do a very good job of it.

And Kimmy too--- you express yourself so wonderfully! about one doing their best at the time.....
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I think that statement can have some understanding and is an individual understanding for most when combining all aspects. In my family I see the "trail" and while I have realized that there were some things that are now understood as doing the best for the time, there are others that I know within me will never be OK for any time.

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"an individual understanding"-- that's what it is, and some things are never OK at any time.....

To everyone here --