Anger discussions have not gone well for me in T lately either. T has always thought that I'm unconsciously angry. I seldom feel angry, but when I do, I recognise it. So I find it hard to agree. She's still convinced that deep down I'm angry about everything. She's always told me how okay it is to express my anger. When I did actually get angry with her (after huge ruptures), she felt pushed away, she responded with anger, or was defensive, she didn't want to read my writing because she felt she was being beaten up on. Back before I was angry, when she just thought I was resisting her (I tried to clarify I was only resisting myself) she said she felt like she'd been physically hit. No, I'm not a fan of the anger stuff right now.