Hello, a few times on this forum I have been attacked because someone didn't agree with me. I have come to the awareness in my life how I give people too many chances and I take the high road and try to work things out with them. Well I'm learning how much of a beating you can take doing this.
I'm finding myself coming to this forum and being a little nervous to being attacked. These other areas in my life where I have discovered this, well one, I dropped that one right out of my life. Don't really want to do that here.
So, just a suggestion, if you find yourself triggered here by what someone says please try to not go on the attack. We all have the rights to our opinions and we can discuss it with claws retracted. (And I'm not talking about everyone who has disagreed with me, just those who did it in attack mode because I don't mind at all people disagreeing with me).
What am I wanting with this thread? I guess I just wanted to get it off my chest and get it out in the open because I'm not feeling comfortable here.
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