Sannah - I am sorry that you've felt attacked. I think it's one of the pitfalls of a mostly anonymous forum...it's much easier to attack when you disagree with someone. I think sometimes, when a particular comment has struck a nerve, it's hard to remember that there is a real person on the other end of that post. I wish that people would either just not reply to things that they don't find useful, or reply with a "thanks, but I don't think that will work for me," and let it drop.

I often find your comments thought provoking and insightful.