
Jan 24, 2013, 02:10 PM
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Member Since: Jan 2013
Location: USA
Posts: 9
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Your feelings seem pretty normal because you are going through so much stress and it seems easier to go back. Maybe it is. But, I don't know what made you two part in the first place. Is it something that is a deal-breaker. If you are compromising what is best for you to make it easier for everyone rethink it first. If you were not being treated right then you might want to wait a bit. Will the reason that made you leave in the first place be better now if you go back? Or will you think that you just jumped back in to the mess you had finally just escaped from? Get used to your new situation before you decide. God Bless and good luck.
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Originally Posted by AngelWolf3
So I have been in this crazy interesting relationship with my ex-husband. I will be the first to admit that it was probably 80% (if not more) my fault for us getting the divorce. Anyway, we have 2 kids, and we have been slowly getting closer again. I think it's great that he is willing to forgive and forget, as I have been able to as well.
He and I are contemplating moving back in together (my roommate moves out in Feb, and I can't afford to live on my own)...obviously if we made that move it would have to be permanent because we are NOT going to put the kids through that again.
I don't know what to think. My heart doesn't go "pitter patter" every time he's around but I definitely got jealous when he was seeing other people (after the divorce, of course). At the same time, I have not had a relationship since we divorced...is it because I want to be with him, or because I don't want to deal with one?
So, I don't even know what to feel. I don't know if I am doing this because I care about him? I do love him, I don't know if I can truly say I am In love with him...or if I am doing this for convenience and familiarity, or because the kids want us back together so badly.
We have a decent relationship now. I am just afraid, maybe of myself? I don't trust easily either.
So, any input is appreciated, don't hold back, I need a reality check, please. What do I do?
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