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Originally Posted by Anne2.0
I think in practice the definition of attack varies widely from person to person. And some people, here as in RL, have a clear need at least some of the time to be victims in all situations where people fail to respond to them as they would like. I have had people tell me that I am triggered and that I have attacked them when I thought I was just expressing disagreement.
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I totally agree, and I've seen your threads when people told you you were attacking and I didn't see it that way either.
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Originally Posted by Anne2.0
I would think, though, that that goal would be to be comfortable with being attacked here, because I don't think that your thread is going to solve what is a very ingrained problem. So my question would be, why not work towards getting to the point that when people attack you, you can shuck it off like water off a duck's back?
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Yeah, I'm usually able to do this but because of that perfect storm that I was talking about, it is making it a bit harder this time. I just need to decide what I'm doing and why I'm doing it and if I'm getting the right balance for myself. Thanks!