Me too.

That's why it's very very important for me to hate the bpd, not myself, or others with bpd.

It is very irritating. Bpd is irritating. I hate that, too---going from wanting to do something and then not following thru. My new companion got annoyed with me when I promised to go somewhere with him and then did not. I explained to him, again, it's the bpd and the agoraphobia, not about you.

We are decent people. Decent people with a condition.

thanks for this thread.