Thank you lonely for responding. I'm posting here just to work this out. I've done a lot of T work and now I find that I can work through issues by myself with help here. I guess you don't see how you were going after me for having an opinion? Stopdog, summarized it well I think by saying that sometimes people go personal and I feel that this is what happened between us.

I'm not doing therapy here. I give support and sometimes info and just try to help people narrow down what is bothering them so that they can take it back to their T and work on it.

Do you think that I triggered you?