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Originally Posted by tired all the time
I think saying it to someone just helps. Breaking up is like a death. It takes a while to get over. He does sound like a narcosist. Pitty the poor fool that married him. When you are in a loving relationship some day you will be so glad to be rid of him.
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Thank goodness I'm not the only one who believes he's a narcisist. One of the reasons I broke up with him, was that he's metrosexual, but in a very strange way. I like men who wear perfume and try to look real good, but this one is also extremely excentric. He always wears weird clothing, trying to look like the classic gentleman from the 50s, but he just looks out of place. Sometimes ghe dresses like a pathetic mixture of The Godfather and Travolta on Grease: leather jacket, jeans and fedora...
But the worst part is that he noticed and enjoyed everytime someone told us we looked very good together. He couldn't stop bragging about the times when a man told him he was really handsome and that it was reasonable for a girl like me to go out with a guy like him. Also about one time when an artist told him he wanted to paint us, because we looked like characters from an old movie...
And no, that was not the worst! He used to say that he also has long and culed eyelashes (cause I have them so), that he also has curly hair, that he also has too many clothes, that he also spends a lot of money on creams and treatments, that he also... A lot of things that made me feel it was a competition, but one that I am used to have with my girlfriends, not with an older man I'm dating (for the record, he is the only one that old I ever dated).
He is also used to demading and telling others what to do, he believes he's always right, he never takes any advice and never pays attention to what others really need. He tried to tell me what I should give him as a present for Christmas, but I hate when people tell me what I have to do, so I bought him what I wanted. He kept telling me how to dress and what to eat (I have allergies, so he said he was only taking care of me). But well, the more I remember, the more I'm certain I really dodged a bullet!!!
Than you, guys, I really appreciate your support!!!