Ok...I read the posts. I think that it's hard not to react to the many flavors of posters that we have here, and a lot of reactions are knee-jerk and then defense. I have OFTEN posted knee-jerks, and felt stupid later on. I don't do it as often as I used to because I have gotten to know people's styles and intentions.

There was a time when I pulled back a bit and felt like you were "practicing" on me, or others (when I was newer), but I have since gotten to know you and I feel like I know your heart and intentions. When I read your posts I know THIS is the Sannah that helped Suzie break thru A, and Sally stop B, and Gingie end C. THIS is the Sannah that stayed up half the night posting with Trudie when she was in a really tough bind. This is the Sannah that cares.

Text and font doesn't portray who we are, it's a relationship we form over time of posting and getting to know each other. So on the days that WikidPissah goes off on Hanksta (like anyone could hate on the hanksta) most posters will think "hey, that can't be what she meant, she doesn't usually treat people like that" instead of sending me a thousand hate pms.

It comes down to think before you type.
Something I need to be very mindful of.