Thread: so now what?
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Old Sep 28, 2006, 04:33 PM
Anonymous29319
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Don't know if Im on track here or not so if not just pass on this but here goes.

Every once and a while you end up conflicted as to moving back to the other place or staying where you are. I can understand why you want to go back there and maybe have a need to.

If this was me I would look at the situation that got me where I was at the present and figure out if I moved back to where I used to be could the situation that caused me to be where I am now happen again.

You moved to where your sister is because you were having a hard time taking care of yourself and not having a job due to you lost your job because you became so ill you were in the hospital at deaths door from an illness that you still have now.

You just got a job where you are and now a job where you used to live had opened up for you. Well if you moved back away from your sister and where you are now can that illness that you have strike back up into full speed ahead and cause you to be in the hospital at deaths door again resulting in your losing that job and once again having to move to your sisters?

If not then I say go because you keep struggling with the situation as to move back there or not so you have some issues back there that needs to be worked out.

BUT if the answer is yes you have not been cured of this desease that put you at deaths door and it can do so again to the point where you may lose that job and have to once again move to where your sister is for help then I say stay put.

you have a job now and if you end up in the hospital you may lose it but you won't have to move because you are already in close proximity to the person that can help you - your sister.

Take care.