I kinda believe that, as I have experienced one with my T. I'm not sure she understands how totally devastating it was for me because I can't talk about it without falling completely apart. BUT- I have felt her reach out to me and I have seen her take responsibility for her actions and I have felt some form of repair to the situation. The biggest part of what needs to happen to completely repair it is for me to take care of expressing, without any hesitation, how I felt as a result of what happened and how it affected me. THAT is something I just cannot do.