Sannah, for what it's worth, I value your input. I have seen others go into what I would consider "attack mode" against you, and I'm a little perplexed because some of them are people I really like. I have also seen super defensive, attacking people post here complaining about OTHERS attacking THEM and I find that perplexing as well. I know when others have asked for input or additional insight and I offer my opinion, I have been attacked as harsh or attacking or whatever when the person ASKED for other people's opinions. Maybe I just don't understand humans enough or how things are perceived.

In any event, while I have disagreed with you on a number of occasions (actually, a goodly number of occasions -- LOL), I have always respected that you were willing to offer your insight without insisting that the other person accept your statements or opinions as true. I hope you decide to stay and can work this out for yourself on an emotional level. I am sorry for whatever it is that is happening in your personal life to make this the perfect storm for you.