Oh Shattered... you must be feeling like since you have this spot as liason.... that you have to be the strong one despite your own troubles.

I stand by my vote. Just do the best you can, when you can, and NEVER EVER feel bad about asking for help and getting what you need FIRST! Take care of you first, and then worry about welcoming people. and dont' stress. welcome people when you can and let it go when you need time for you. It's not meant to be a stressor. It's ok.