Dan, I have to agree, have not seen you over stepping bounderies. Remember what you said to dukie and you were very worried, except that was a very good response in my opinion, zero bounderies crossed.

Just say what you feel, share your experience, if you think something might help..share it. There is nothing wrong with that at all.

I do understand being frustrated with yourself, or feeling like you can't help. Oh really do I ever, I feel like that often. It's hard for me too, and it's hard to have found ways to deal that actually work for me and try to share it with others. Trust me I worry that I annoy everyone here with that stuff. Sometimes I wonder if I should be here, do I fit here? But I know deep down that we all fit here, we all have something valuable to share, and that includes you too.

Thing is Dan.. you never know who you helped, or how. I have been helped here by a lot of people, sone I bet have no idea or to what extent. A lot of people read here, some of the people who helped me never even posted in this forum. Never talked directly to me, but reading their posts to others, I have been helped that way too.

You have never hurt me, and we dont interact a ton I know, but I read your posts to others as well but I am not seeing what you are seeing. You are being a good supportive friend to many, and the new people who come here as well.

There really is no right way to help others, we are all just kind of winging it, just go with your heart. That's all any of us can do. You have no bad intentions, I hope you know others can see that as well.