Simply_Simon:

Thank you so much for your advice and understanding!!!! It does help. My friend is in the hospital and she's depressed, wants to go home etc. She kept talking the other day about her wanting to die and I really didn't need to hear that.I mentioned it to her son (that I really didn't need to hear some of the things that she was talking about) and now he has Home Health care companies lined up to interview with her (if she wants). I just don't know what I should do. I asked her if she wanted someone else to take care of her but she said that she couldn't answer that right now. I feel like I'm in limbo. I know that she's depressed because of being in hospital and the meds she's taking. It can be pretty tough to deal sometimes.

I appreciate the advice that you gave me about my daughter. I know that her "attitude" isn't personal..it's her age but that's hard for me to take because she doesn't live with me and I don't get to see her that often.

I appreciate your willingness to listen. I hope you are doing well and things in your life are going good.

Take care

gypsylace