I got divorced 2 years ago when I was 38. The first year I was really trying to get out there and date because I thought wow I am almost 40 and this is the best I am ever going to look, etc. I better find someone now!! I went on several dates and there was no love match. It is funny because this year I have totally relaxed about the age issue and do not even think about it. I don't think you can rush falling in love or getting married again. This year I am just concentrating on being myself and I have come to accept that if I never meet that special person who accepts me as I am, then I will be okay. I will be fine on my own. I would like it to happen but it is not the end of the world if it doesn't.