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Originally Posted by skysblue
Yes, I can admit that abandonment issues in RL relationships are present. AND, that same issue has played out with T in the past.
Yes, historical influences are present - no doubt.
But, I want to default to old patterned responses which is to put up the emotional barricade and be as aloof as I can. Ah, it feels good to protect myself that way. So much easier than to face the unpleasant emotions. Being dead emotionally is safe but I also realize it inhibits the full experience of living a vibrant life.
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Amen to that. Aloof is a good way of characterizing it. I was trying to differentiate apathy from acceptance in T today. As in, how do I accept the limitations of the T relationship (abandonment triggers included) without resorting to apathy.