No, I've already had a son with an unusually handsome man, my first H. There were severe problems with the father - he has always been cold and uncaring towards the son, and, as my former teacher who also taught my first H (my first H and I had been good friends for 7 years before I had the misfortunate to all of a sudden find him sexually attractive), is one of the most empty, shallow, self-absorbed students she has known (unfortunately during the brief few months of my dating him, I was not in touch with my former teacher and could not have the benefit of her advice).

But the boy did get the eye color and the basketball height of his father. And did spend 5 years playing basketball, including college-level basketball, until it started to occupy so much time that it became difficult to study so he stopped.

At any rate, I have already had this experience, so thanks but no thanks, but I now pay attention to other factors. I think that one time is more than enough.

Good question!