to me my parents ruined me talking to the, by always threating to send me to the hospital....like when I started self harm I went to my parents yelled and said if I do it again im getting sent away....truthfully they don't really give me good advice....they try I know they do but they just don't....I go to my father for advice on how to handle bad fire or ems calls he tells you get used to it and walks away....so basically I deal with it myself or go to my fire chief....but basically I cant go to my parents because they don't know how to handle it