First of all, I don't feel that anything I said was wrong. I am perfectly aware that a partners status has nothing to do with functioning--and I wasnt trying to say that it was. I just feel that either you are an addict or alcoholic or you are not: THAT WAS MY POINT. I understand your point about the portion control. But I do not feel that anything I said was off. If you feel that anything was off, then that is fine. I am perfectly fine with you disagreeing with me, but I am NOT going to apolgize because you read something into my statement that wasn't there. I get your point that you disagree with what I said, but I am not going to apologize to you because I don't feel I said anything wrong! NOW WILL YOU PLEASE STOP HARRASSING ME!!!!!!!???? You are the one who keeps making such a big deal out of this and carrying on about it. Just accept the fact that we don't agree and move on. (I think what's really going on is that you have a guilty conscience.)
And I really don't care if you can "reconcile" this or not, because I wasnt talking to you when I posted. Your thought or feelings or whether or not you can reconcile anything I said is of no concern to me--I don't know know you! You're not my parent, sibling, employer or whatever, so I am not obligated to please you. Like I said, you made your point, and I am not going to apologize to because I don't feel I did or said anythhing wrong. You are a control freak and it is not my job to jump at your command! NOW PLEASE DROP IT!