Good call. But then again, B judged that I was being passive-aggressive - and judging is discouraged. Instead, expressing our feelings and taking ownership for those feelings is encouraged. And, since one person perceives it as passive-aggressive and reacts to that judgment - while another person perceives it in an entirely different way and reacts quite differently - there's no real telling who really did what to who because everyone's issues play a factor as well. SO much involved. And all quite valuable.

But STILL not quite worth getting the process rolling at my expense...

And, this whole example is made up, btw....