Hi Kate! I just wanted you to know you have been heard. I agree with the others that continuing therapy is necessary.Maybe try making small talk with this guy.. sometimes when I go to therapy, i am not able or in the mood to talk about real issues.. and so I just talk about little things that might have annoyed me that day... much like i would if i were venting to a friend.

It actually took me several visits before I could feel comfortable with my T enough to talk about serious things... so maybe its time you need.. although I understand about possibly not being comfortable with a man.

Wishing you the best.... Faith