I have always been honest w/ my husband. Honesty has caused many an argument. I have admitted things that in hind site I wish I would not have. But I can't change that now.

I still believe honesty is the best policy. Honesty is difficult but lies only eat away at you. I applaud you for your honesty. You admitted things that were not easy. That takes on strong individual. So don't be so hard on your self. Your wife/x wife must have had more grievances then porn. That is hardley a reason to leave. I just wanted you to know that what you told her took guts so you are stronger then you think.