I'm sorry to hear about that. All I can say is take it one day at a time. Break ups are never easy, especially when SI is involved. Take it slow, focus on the reasons that you stopped cutting and the reasons you don't want to start again. Use distractions when needed.

It takes time but it will get easier again. If you can't lean on friends, lean on people here. We are always happy to listen and support if we can.

I can't promise to have answers but if you ever want to talk - abotu what is happening or just as a distraction - please feel free to contact me. I'm always happy to listen.

Hang in there Thinking of you.