Well, speaking as a guy Aquarius, I am sorry you've been so disappointed by my gender. In my observations, you are completely half right...those you are speaking of have one thing on their mind and one thing only, and there are quite a few of them out there...more than a few. I am sorry you've had to experience them.

However, please don't allow them to jade you in your view of us all. There are plenty of great guys out there, guys who'll treat a lady as a lady deserves to be treated. Who'll love you, not what you can offer them. In short, good guys. They're there...they just need be found, is all.

I would be remiss to say...I know you didn't ask for advice on the matter, but if the guy you're "with" now is doing something you're not okay with in the humping, tell him to stop! You deserve more respect than that, IMO, and he needs to know that you don't appreciate it. He might think he's just being playful or...frisky, I guess would be the word? Anyway, if you don't appreciate it, you have every right in the world to ask of him to stop, and he owes it to you out of basic respect not to. I hope I didn't interject my opinion where it wasn't asked for...I just felt that needed to be said. My apologies if I overstepped my boundaries.

Please don't let the actions of the few ruin your perception of the whole. I would offer, if I can be of any help or if you simply need to vent, consider my PM box open.

Hugs,
Harley