Sometimes you just can't figure people out. I have a good friend from college who avoids getting together. He talked on email or facebook message about going all the way to Florida to see his other college friend, but we are about 30 to 45 minutes away and he just seemed to dodge getting together. Strange. We had an argument after college, when we got together once, which was about 23 years ago, but you'd think he'd have released any bad feelings from one argument and from that long ago.