It's just possible that you have a man who has a low sex drive, while you happen to have a strong one, especially, as you say, now that you are reaching your peak.

Can you live with this situation as it is? It sounds like you have more than tried to get his motor running. Wow! I bet my husband has wished from time to time that I had been more motivated to be wilder.

Sex is just not very important in some marriages, and as long as the couple is happy with that situation, then it works out fine. But I hear you saying that you are not happy.

I have to say that I am glad I'm not a man, since they have to do more work in the sexual department. In most marriages the fire does die down after awhile and the couple is more like two dear friends. However, it does seem a bit early for that.

We could imagine all sorts of possibilities, and you probably have: he's really gay, he's having an affair and is worn out, etc. But let's go with the more likely scenarios. It could be, as I say, that he is really not as interested as you. Most men tend to equate love with sex, but not all of them. And some women would love to have a man who is willing to snuggle but not expect much else physically. He could have been just trying to make you happy by doing what you wanted earlier. Also, has he had a physical lately? It could be his testosterone level is low.

I suggest you run this by your own doctor and see what he/she has to say.

Hope this helps!