well theres alot to tell, I have been HPd all of my life, and i got marredi like 10 years ago and my hubby wasnmt showing me affection, so i was using facebook as an outlet for some communication from old friends of my past, not a good thig lol, so i neded up talking to an old freind, one of my brother bff when we were kids and I ended up having an online affair and left my husband for a month, this man and i had so many problems becuase he has BPD, and a wife of his own, with us both being married and having kids it didnt end well it lasted for about 1 month and we both went back hom to our spouses, he has tried to contact me various times, but for some reason i feel bored with him, and dont feel the ame way about him, I have worked most of the problems out with my husaband, and things seem OK, but since my hubby started his new job, old behaviors seem to arise, like being mean to me.... thats the short version lol