perhaps you are being too nice to everyone ... its wrong dear ... i actually hate my parents for telling me to be nice to everyone,to be friendly ...

have you seen "i am not paid to be nice with you" written on someones t shirt .. when i saw it, i was like confused why would somebody write such thing ...but when you get older you will understand .... people are selfish ...

there is some Pulitzer Prize-winning book "independence day" ...quote from it is "What's friendship's realest measure? I'll tell you. The amount of precious time you'll squander on someone else's calamities and ****-ups."