I wish I had seen this site 6.5 years ago... I would be where I am now... I need the strength to break from a relationship which is going nowhere... and worse... I know now it was never going to go anywhere... yet I have still strong feelings for him... Im so confused... hurt and depressed... Im angry at myself for being so stupid and gullible ... I am the donkey that will never get the carrot ... there is no carrot... just a false illusion.