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So to all that recieve such notices from fools no matter where they are on line warning to stay away from others - you have every right to decide for yourselves who you want to be friends with and so on.and the person warning may possibly be practicing the art of abusive isolation. Clues to this type of person - Look at all the comments our own abusers used in isolating us and scaring us away from others - "I'm only tellling you this because I care about you" "I don't want you to get hurt" "you know I really care about you..." you don't want this to happen... " Any comments that are geared to suck up to you while telling you about that other person is a loud bell ringer that the person doing the warning is out of line and knows they are out of line.


a non abusive person does not engage in discussing other on line persons. Instead they let the on line people decide for themselves.. Especially if you did not bring up that person you are being warned about to begin with.

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(((myself)))