I should probably stay out of it because this thread is already getting "contentious." But sorry... I'm one to speak my mind.

IMO If someone holds another person dear, whether in 3D or in cyber space, and knows that person can be easily hurt, I see absolutley NO HARM in warning that person... AS LONG AS you aren't trying to control them. Of course, the person warned has the freedom to make up their own mind!

If one of my closest friends starts dating a man I KNOW is a player and a jerk, I would be bound to warn my close friend if she didn't already know him for what he is. It would be completely up to her if she continued seeing this man.

As as aside; I don't see why this has to turn into an argument. State your opinion and move on! GEEEEZ!! Allow Fuzzy to make up her own mind!