Together 11, married 10 years. My bipolar began to show then and it came out in rages. Only when manic would I find fault with or consider leaving my husband. He was remarkably patient and never raised even his voice to me during these periods. Now I am an empty nester and am recently able to feel a manic coming on and as best I can manage it. This began in December and it was very disconcerting to know all the "off" things I was doing and try and keep control of it. Unfortunately I am in another manic so quickly. My husband is being wonderful. I'm so glad I married him!! And I love him without bounds! He is the best support system.