I am currently in a manic so my emotions are all over the board, but I felt both sad and angry for you...You are doing a wonderful job, because my kids are recently moved out and I can't get things done and have a shining house and Im so grateful that my husband takes on most of the chores. My first husband did nothing and I felt like I was raising another child, plus work full time and deal with BP. I was at my wits end then so I totally understand how you are feeling! And you have every right to feel that way! I hope you can effect some changes so that things get better.